![]() Perhaps this has something to do with the fact that you’re not as comfortable around others as extroverts are. ![]() ![]() It irks you to your core and it can really upset your workflow. People talking, random questions while you’re working, the sounds of people chewing their food around you. This is because it’s hard for you to not get distracted when other people are around you. You are much more productive when you’re alone in your office than when others are near you. That is what really gets your juices flowing.īut small-talk is so common these days that you’d prefer spending time alone. You want to know the purpose behind someone’s actions and what they find joyful in life. ![]() If you’re going to talk to someone, you’d rather get to know them at a deep level. This is why you come across as a cold person to others. It’s just a way to fill the silence, but for you, you’d rather bask in the glory of silence! Instead, the questions and answers lack so much meaning that it doesn’t need to be said. You don’t get to know someone for who they truly are. You can’t stand small-talkįor you, small-talk is meaningless and superficial. It’s only when you’re alone that you can completely let go and be yourself. It means you can’t fully relax and enjoy the moment. It’s their presence that makes you uncomfortable. You’re at peace with your soul when you’re sitting in silence.īut as soon as people are around, the peace you love is gone.Īnd it’s not even the other person making noise that upsets you. You can work on your passion projects or watch your favorite TV shows. You can’t always pick your favorite movie or go to your favorite restaurant when there are other people involved.Īnd sure, every now and then it’s fine to try a new restaurant that your friend recommends.īut when it comes down to it, you’d rather just do what you want to do. When you’re with other people, you don’t always get to do what you want to. When you’re alone, you get to do what you want to do There’s nothing wrong with that, and that’s why you love spending time alone. Whereas some people feel more energy after being active, you’d rather relax. And it’s where you ponder your deepest thoughts (or watch TV!). You just love taking time out and sitting on the couch. No this doesn’t mean you’re not fit or you don’t exercise at all. I’m talking about basic energy supply.įor you, your favorite place is a comfortable couch or chair, whereas others get energized from being active. Now I’m not talking just introvert vs extrovert here. They’re fun to hang out with for 30 minutes but after that, they can get seriously annoying. The type of person that seems to have an endless supply of energy. So if you find yourself becoming easily drained of energy when you’re around others, then it might be the case that you’re an introvert and this is the reason you enjoy spending time alone. You also tend to find alone time as peaceful and even energizing. In fact, studies have suggested that introverts tend to be highly sensitive to the neurotransmitter “dopamine”, which fires in the brain far too often with prolonged social exposure. I’m sure you’ve heard of the word “introvert” before, or you already understand what it means.īasically, an introvert gets drained of energy when they spend time with others, whereas an extrovert gains energy.
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